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A Beautiful Enchantress |
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For those of you who know me, you will know that I can be jovial and frivolous in one moment and as deep as the midnight sky on a clear night in the next moment.
For a man (or a woman) on the spiritual path the chances of meeting a suitable partner to share the journey with - is remote; because there are few that share the values of real honesty and integrity. There’s a lot of chaff ‘out there’ but very little wheat - a lot of milk but very little cream!
Rare is the man that always tells the truth because in doing so, it will often compromise his position in your life. If a woman gets a really truthful guy then she can no longer play her clever games because such a man will expose her and thus she will look elsewhere for her fix.
For example, I love a passionate woman but I’ve noticed that most women’s passion is not so much for life or for sex; like us men: it is mainly for seduction. This, I believe, is why women like to flirt with many men; like to ‘feel’ a stranger dancing close to them; and why they have affairs and secret liaisons. It’s not that they necessarily sleep around but they like the power they feel from knowing they can seduce another man even if they’ve already got a sexual partner.
And of course the guys ‘lap it up’ because even if it’s only for a few hours, the thought of taking from another guy is their power fix.
When we add to this the basic emotional need of the woman, which is for security, we see why wealthy men who are liars are never short of female company! The fact that I have counselled many insecure wealthy women tells me that money never made anybody secure - it has to come from within outward.
It’s a great chemical fix for the older woman to be ‘seen’ with the young virile man but where’s he going to be when she loses ‘the edge’ or can no longer ‘keep him‘? Equally, it feels just as good for the solvent, not so pretty and not so young, man to be sporting a young chick on his arm. Is it really love?
A Beautiful Enchantress is beyond all of these illusions. She no longer needs to play the clever, manipulative games that the average woman plays.
She takes solace in ‘one who knows’ and waxes and wanes across his deep chest. She whispers to him, knowing that he can hear her secrets; confident that they are safe with him. He is enchanted. He watches her with awe, knowing that she brings experience to his table; that can form the basis of a love that is new and refreshing. He knows that she has the capacity to love him, and that excites him because he also knows that his well is deep and waiting for her. He wants to consume her but is wise enough to know that she has to come and go for a while until she can trust him implicitly. He waits patiently for their encounters….
It doesn’t matter to him what shape she takes but that her eyes shine from being truthful. He knows that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and to him she really shines. It doesn’t matter to him if she’s a somebody or not or what she does, but that she has integrity and he can also trust her - implicitly. And where is she? She’s with him of course - where else would she want to be?
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